What is sexuality?
Our sexuality is a natural and healthy part of who we are and it is made up of many different things. One of these things is about our gender and how we feel about being male or female. Another is about our sexual orientation or who we fancy.
Each of us feels differently about our sexuality, and we may express it in different ways. Its important to treat each other how we would like to be treated.
Who do you fancy?
We all find different people attractive, and you have the right to make your own decisions about who you fancy.
Its important to treat each other how we would like to be treated.
You might fancy people of the opposite sex, the same sex, or both, or you may be unsure and are questioning who you fancy. This is called your sexual orientation. Some people from an early age are very sure of their sexual orientation, but its not unusual for someone to be less sure, or that it changes over time.
These are the words used to describe sexual orientation:
- Straight: is used to describe people who are attracted to people of the opposite sex
- Gay: is used to describe people who are attracted to people of the same sex. (Some people use the word ‘gay’ to only describe guys who are attracted to other guys).
- Lesbian: is used to describe girls who are attracted to other girls
- Bisexual: is used to describe people who are attracted to both guys and girls
Feeling a bit confused or worried?
Lots of people are sure about their sexual orientation, but others may not be so sure and this can be difficult. Some people might be worried about how others will react. And some people worry about their gender. If you want advice and support about sexual orientation or how you feel about your gender, check out the places listed in the address book or visit www.lgbtyouth.org.uk
Being a good friend…
Maybe someone you know is worried about their sexual orientation, or has just told you they are gay. This can be a difficult time for them – especially as sometimes people close to them might not be supportive and encouraging. Find out what help and support your friend would like, or call LGBT Youth Scotland on 0131 662 2266 for advice.
What does respect mean?
Different relationships?
Stressed out?