How Does Confidentiality Work?
We know that confidentiality is really important to you when you’re looking for sexual health and relationships information, or want to use a sexual health service.
If I go to a drop-in or sexual health service, will I get asked personal questions?
Yes, they may ask you questions about your health and relationships so that they can give you the help or information you need during your visit (and if they see you again). They may also ask you some questions to make sure you understand the advice they are giving. You only have to tell them things you feel comfortable sharing.
Will things I say, or ask for, be kept private?
You only have to tell them things you feel comfortable sharing.Yes. Whatever age you are, you have the right to confidentiality about your sexual health and relationships if you discuss them with a professional. This means that youth agencies, doctors, nurses and other people who offer confidential services should keep your personal information private. This means that most young people who are under 16 can get condoms and other contraception without other people knowing.
Professionals can’t tell other people about what you discussed, or what treatment you had, without first asking your permission.
The only exception to this rule is when:
the professional person is concerned that you or someone else is in danger of being harmed, especially if you are under the age of 16
Under 16s are entitled to special protection from harm, and professionals must remember this when helping young people – they refer to this as ‘child protection’. If they feel you might need extra support or protection to keep you safe, a professional person will always try to tell you first that they need to share what you’ve told them with someone else.
What about telling my parents or another adult I know?
There are certain situations where a professional person will strongly encourage you to tell an adult - for example, if you are under 16 and pregnant. This is so you can get support when you need it, from someone you know and trust. It’s important to try and talk to your parents or carers about things that affect you, if you can. You might be surprised how much help they can give.
But no one can make you tell your parents, and professionals can’t pass on information about you to anyone else without telling you first.
Still worried about confidentiality in a service?
If you are confused or worried about how confidentiality works in a drop-in, at the doctors or sexual health service, ask the professional you see to explain it to you before you share anything personal. They want you to be safe and are there to help you.
If you want to read more information on confidentiality, Healthy Respect has a booklet called How Confidentiality Works, for 13, 14 and 15 year olds. You can download a free copy here.
What does the law say?
Where can I go for more info on sex and the law?